On the road to love

Anonymous asked: When I first saw her walking down the hallway I had to do a double take. Every time I see her, I just freeze up. So after a couple days I think she finally noticed me/that. Then on wed, she came out of nowhere down the hallway and we looked at each other and we like smiled/smirked at each other.. And its been like that ever since. I know her name but I want to get to know her. What do I say?

Walk up and say hi. :) it’s that easy

Anonymous asked: I am sexually attracted to guys and girls. but i dont think i can fall for a girl, i havent had feelings for one yet. does that make me bi still? or maybe i just havent found the right girl i guess.

I think you just haven’t found the right girl yet. You’ll meet her soon

Sorry my replies are a bit delayed. I got a job and it takes up a lot of my time.

I still care more than you know <33

blueandgreenhockeysocks-deactiv asked: a few months ago i met a girl who i think i'm in love with. the first time i told her i thought she was pretty she said i was real cute. when i told her how i felt she said she wasnt interested but she thinks im great. we're friends but she's rejected me like six or seven times. every now and then she shows signs that she wants me to chase after her. i want to ask her out by her birthday (december 15) or christmas, but i'm scared. should i?

If you love her, go after her before someone else does.

Anonymous asked: a couple of months ago I came out as Bisexual, I knew I was attracted to both sexes but when I think about sex with either I'm no longer attracted, the physical sex turns me off but looks and personality make me like people, does this make me Asexual? I'm so confused and I just think that I am the only one, I have no one else to talk to, my parents are homophobic and I'm to frightened to talk to my friends as I think I'll freak them out. I don't know what to do, do you have any advice? x

I think the term for that is demisexual? Where you are attracted to personality first then possibly sexual. Is that what you mean? I’m 100% for screwing labels. You don’t NEED a label to be whole. You do what makes you happy with whoever you want. That’s how you will be happy.

Anonymous asked: I'm 13 and am bisexual. I am interested in girls very much. Should i wait a few years before I tell Mom?

Tell her when you feel it’s right for you.

deadcops-deactivated20130329 asked: im bisexual and ive always been with girls. but now im talking to this guy i really really like but im hessitating to move things forward with him and he notices. almost everything is right. but i just cant get it to comitt. why do you think it is?

Perhaps it’s the newness of the relationship that both of you are afraid to commit. Once he trusts you and vice versa, things will be easier to move forward.

Anonymous asked: I'm a genderqueer biological female. Nobody knows about my genderqueer-ness, so they always call me by female pronouns. I wanted to be seen as male for once, so when I made my tumblr, I told people who asked that I'm a guy. I KNOW some day the truth will come out. I don't want them to think I lied to them on purpose, but I don't want them to see me as a male in a female body. They're supportive of an mtf trans so it's not like it's a foreign concept, but genderqueer IS kinda different.

When the truth comes out, if it ever does- Just be honest. You wanted to be seen as a male because it made you feel more comfortable. It has nothing to do with you lying on purpose. If they can’t support you wanting to be see as a man, and they are convinced you are lying, you might want to give them a lesson on friendship after you give them a lesson on what genderqueer is. Stay true to you.

myretard asked: I had a rough break up with my boyfriend and he was my first boyfriend. We've been on and off but we officially broke up. It's been 2 months and I still haven't been able to move on... I feel hopeless and ugly. I feel like I'm never going to find a guy better than him. What do I do...

If it’s over now, you must know there is someone out there who’s actually FOR you and won’t leave. The heartbreak will eventually go. Time heals all wounds. It’s taken me months to get over relationships before. I understand your pain

thelochnesskraken asked: Did you hear about the Gay Penguin? Everyone thought it was the cutest thing and no one mentioned the word "abomination" or mentioned Hell in my overly catholic homophobic suburban home. It was an odd but wonderful change of pace.

Yes I have :) That’s great :D

inquire-within-deactivated20120 asked: For a contest for Seventeen magazine, I wrote a story about a girl who's just found out about the FTM transition of her former girlfriend and first love, and is trying to figure out what that means for her. It addresses LGBT issues, which aren’t often dealt with in magazines for teenage girls, or any other media for that age group. My story could get published if I get enough people to go here and click the heart: figment[.]com/books/160540-What-This-Meant-for-Me Please spread the word!

Anonymous asked: I've recently been talking to a girl and getting to know her. I've known since I was maybe 12 I'm attracted to girls (I'm nearing 20), but this is the first time I've really gotten into any form of even pseudo-relationship with someone of the same gender. I'm nervous I'm not going to know what to do or I might not be physically attracted to her (because I know not everyone looks like pornstars). I've told her I'm new to all of this and I'm definitely attracted to her personality. Help?

Give her a chance. Sometimes you aren’t sure of your physical attraction until you’ve established an emotional connection. There’s nothing wrong with that. Just tell her that you want to be patient and take things slow. if you both already like each other, but you’re afraid to take the first step, then patience is all you two need. Your moment will come.

almostawardguy asked: Hey! What should i do if i can't accept myself? I'm 16 and gay, thin, weak and I'm being sorrounded with homophobes in my class, even my "friends". I'm quite wierd and in my country usually everyone is so normal (and borring) and I really don't fit in : /. I didn't tell anyone that I'm gay not even to my real friends(I have some real friends who accept/support gays but i can meet them just on weekends.) I hate my life and I feel like I will be forever alone. Sorry if i had much grammar mistakes.

Start by telling your friends that you trust so that when you see them, you’re around people who accept you. When you are around people who accept you, it will be easier for you to accept yourself. If doesn’t matter your age or your physical abilities (thin and weak.) You’re wonderful inside and out, and you should always love who you are and embrace who you are, because it’s all you have.

Anonymous asked: whats your personal? :3

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Anonymous asked: Hello, I feel weird sending this but I need some help. I'm trying to sort of figure out what I am, and where I fit in. I'm a girl, and I think I'm what's called Pansexual, because I'm not necessarily attracted to body parts as much as personality, and I can love anyone whether they be man or woman. But does that mean I'm part of the LGBTQ community?

Absolutely! personally, I call it the LGBT+ community. The + adds to the other sexualities. Asexual, Queer, Pansexual- etc. You are a part of the gay community.